Tuesday, 21 October 2014

Are You in Love or Infatuated?

LOVE drives you to do things freely that you never saw yourself doing. Being in love requires a deep intimacy between two souls that takes you beyond the universe and into a world where it is you and your lover. It innately requires loyalty, trust and sex that ties the bond perfectly.

•·You know you are in love with someone when you put their wants before your priorities.
•·You know you are in love when you see it necessary to be 100% open about who you are and never to lie or withhold information.
•·You know you are in love when you see it an extreme necessity to be 100% faithful to one individual.
• You know you are in love when you see a future with this one individual.
•·You know you are in love when you make love to this person, your body instantly becomes one with him/her – you feel a deep connection that goes beyond pleasure.

Being in love is not a choice. When you meet this ONE, you are drawn and drawn in such a manner that you know it is not infatuation but love because you are ready to sacrifice your very life for this person without hesitation

INFATUATUION is often mistaken for intimate love as it shares some of the same components but
undermines real intimate love. Infatuation has one powerful factor that differentiates it from intimate love. Infatuation dies. I am sure one and two persons can relate to this – Have you ever met someone you thought you would marry because you were so drawn but within a month or two, you find yourself wanting to slap yourself? YES, I am sure some persons answer is YES. Simply put, it wasn't intimate love and as such, it perishes.

 •·        You know you are infatuated when think every minute about the person.
•·         You know you are infatuated when you always wanting to be around the person.
•·         You know you are infatuated when you call the person just to say hi and nothing more.
•·         You know you are infatuated when you get jealous knowing the person may be around someone else.

We all get this feeling at the conception of a relationship and we conclude that we are in love when truth be told, we are just obsessed with something new but truth is, it will fade.